Monday, January 15, 2007
Transition Stage..
Writing blogs make me to think on things...nowdays am spending time to think on the things which i wont usually do..right now i am in a transition state..guess many of us are in such a situation...so i thought i can generalize the issue..during our college days we wont have much money, facilities and freedom as we have right now..but still we were happy...and we enjoyed our life..but now we have evrything except the happyness and mental peace which we had previously..so i started thinking on this issue...why this happens..may be the way we enjoy our life is changing..our mind sets are changing..but we r not in a position to accept it straight away..so we need time to realize them..and another thing is our change in the friends circle..and obiviously the way we enjoy wen we r in a circle differs..take me..i used to tease and play with my college friends in a different manner...we enjoy roaming arnd, staying awake for long at nights, goin out to tea shop at midnights, night shows, anonymous messaging, group studies, eating together, orey dhumma rendu peruu adikiradhu, onna thanni adikiradhu, swimming, travelling together in buses ...the list goes on..i might need a seperate blog to write these things..hehe....but right now we do things tht we say as enjoying in a different manner...like chit chating, sleeping,day without homeworks, a course without project and final exam, weekends, pubs, online movies, and so many.....thts the difference..but our mind takes time to adapt to these things...and then u find thiss part of life is better..all u need is patience and hope...and moreover i shudnt go without talking abt our parents..they are still with us...but at a distant palce...its jus a feeling..u will knw the importance of people when they are not near you..and surely their presencce itself is a gr8 motivation for us..even though thy dont really motivate u..but we lack their presence now..we r learning to be independent..and even this consumes time..and summing everything we realize tht we need time to sort out all this matter..and to adapt ourselves to new environment...so i thought i could call this period as a " transition state"...which i guess is an apt word..this is somewht like our training, internship,temporary job,..which doesnt long..we will automatically get used to these things...but this period is goin to be tough...particularly mentally..i guess am in such a situation..and am thinking on this issue..and writing blogs in such situation gives me a new way of enjoyment..which am doin right now..hehe..enjoying...
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I was waiting on when you would write about the friends circle...remember this...each friend is different...learn to appreciate things as they are...that wud b the biggest test during this transition...
Nzoin the transition eh?? Good job.. REmember one thing. This transition creates an attitude which either raises u or pits u.. Got to b careful now. PS this character developement gives u a third eye when u go to India. Ur old pals will still b pals but they too are in a transition and so things wont b same from now on. Only memories make us happy
Hmm..reminds me of my thoughts two years ago..:) I was pretty much in the same boat as you and now, I've moved onto the next stage in the journey. As you will also...:)
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