Life...

Life is mysterious…full of surprises and shocks…Forrest Gump – one of my favorite movie…at one point he says Life is like a box of chocolates..and u never know what u gonna get…of course its true..but one thing for sure..every chocolate is different ..variety of flavours..calorie levels…but common thing is ..those are all sweet in some way or other..jus the same in life..lots of things happening in life..some are good..some are bad..some are encouraging..some discourages...some helps us to get to knw ppl..some looks like waste of time..but everything tht happens is a gud experience and sweet though when u look past…but at tht point or situation it may not look like tht....thers not much difference between experience and success..when u get through a thing u call it a success and if u fail it u call it as an experience…but in both cases u end up in try doin tht thing…so doesn’t matter whether u consider itself a success or experience..it depends on peoples perception…and the situation…Leading life can be done in two ways…one u aim for something and proceed towards it..another is jus get moving along the life with wht u get and do the best with what u get…In tht movie Forrest doesn’t aim anything high in his life…he has no ambitions ..no goals..but he just goes along with wht he gets and do his best in it…and he succeeds too…Most prefer this way of life…somesay anything can be done in a movie…but not feasible in real life..but I don’t think so…U can lead such a life…and still succeed in life…in tht case life become much simpler…and all u need is complacency…and if u don’t have much expectations in your life ..u wont have miseries…becos u wont have lost anything..and not gained anything…if u expect a thing and if u lose it ..tht hurts more than losing an unexpected thing…I see both sides of the coin…and this way of life too hav its own pros and cons..some say the glass is half empty …some say its half full…all I say is whtever is in the glass is mine….hehe..sounds funny…I knw tht..and u knw wht...Life is beautiful too....

LOVE.....

Love.....the most powerful word in the world..which makes all of us crazy..especially the First love is a sweet memory...i thought i cud put my views in words abt this love..one quote says. .if u love a thing set it free; if it comes back it is for u..if not it doesnt mean to you..of course it is true...but sometimes it turns the other way too..if the person u love think the same ..then u both will be losers...so if u love a thing ..jus give a damn try and then if u dont get..its ur wish to try again and again or jus leave it...but u can be happy since atleast u tried once...another aspect is the mind set to wait for the love to come to u..thts is actually a selfish thing..ie u want to be loved but u r not ready to love any one else..but on the other side...this kind of love ie the one u get wil be better than ur own love...becos u got a girl/guy who loves u so much than the other way...so its obivously better...but the perception differs frm person to person...another issue will be mistaking the crush as love...crush doesnt stay long as love...but when u see a girl/guy and if u got a crush and if tht crush goes long and long..u can take it as love...then u will realize tht u hav been in love for the past an year or so...and i dont really believe in first sight love...thts meant for fools...ur love blooms only from friendship and thers not much difference between love and friendship...in both u do things without expecting anything in return just as 'Anything for u ..Nothing for Reward'...but thts more complicated thing to put in words.. more related with feelings..so cut it..there are lot more issues in love...some feel love is an extra burden or needs more commitment....but tht commitment makes u feel good and u got enjoy tht rather than afraid of tht...another issue is inferior complex..u love a guy/girl but u r not ready to reveal it..since u think tht u may not get it..or u think there are more better guys/girls than u who may be a good match for ur love...but remember those better girls/guys may not be able to love as u love ur girl/guy....becos love is nothing to do with physical ....and finally love failure...if u dont get a guy /girl u love after ur level best tries.,,and he/she is not ready to accept it...never mind...becos it is him or her who is goin to lose the best thing in the world...since ur love is true and its the best offer he/she can get in ones life..thers lot more issues in love...but all i say is think a lot before ur make ur decision on love...confirm whether ur love is true...have u choosen the right person ...make sure u can get it going till the end of ur life...and if u r sure of all these ...then go ahead with ur decision...i say 'dont love and if u love dont let it down'...on the one side of love u hav friendship and on the other u hav marriage... u knw where to start and where to end....and becos of all these this LOVE is complicated......and hurts much...